i'm here in virgini suposedly about to move here. and i'm staying over realitives staying but it seems like every little thing that i do wrong i get punished or yelled at for it.and like most of my realitives are sper fit and slim and i'm chunky a little in my thighs and stomach and they get mad at me if they think i'm eating a lot. and to them eating a lot would be haveing too much cearel in your bowl or getting a serving soon full of potato salad. and they really get pissed if you forget to wash your dishes out or clear the tables off. it's so upseting to the point were i just want to take all my money and take a train back to the north to my friendds house to stay at. then they have the audacity to tell me i'm selfish cause i won't tell them my feelings and stuff like that. i truely belive that you have to feel comfortable when telling relatives how you feel because 9 times out of 10 they'll dissaprove of it or they'll get mad at you. i learned that the hard way and i will never tell any one how i truely feel again. at least my realitives.